I agree it will be hard for her. She gets our son every other weekend for now. She has had him for two weeks and refuses to return him. She is violating the court order and so much more now. Don't see how this could be good for her at all now. I guess that with the original topic of wives always getting custody was the old school way of things but now it is suppose to be different and so many things come into the equation. I just want to best for my son is all.