Yes he asked that he will sign off his rights too over my 401K and life insurance too, my bigger question was, since I really loved him, what are we doing for each other as caring spouses, his answer was well I am splitting joint account and house, reality is I put all my life saving in this house, he stashed away millions away for his kid, I trusted that we will be running home together, he makes 30% more than I do, but he got very expenive tast, so we spend lots of money in all kinds of stuff, plus my kids are gone 50% to their fahter, his mother and kid don't go anywhere, I work full time, but then I take care of whole house hold including his mother, they expect 9 course meal on the table every night. I am 40+ and very tired now due to all this physical and mental stress. So I was more what if something happens to him tomorrow, we have very little money in joint account which will be gone paying all the bills, plus house got zero equity due to market, so I will be lietrally pennyless and homeless, when his mother and kid will go to live with his other rich brother. It is not fair, humanity wise. This is why I had such a hard time signing the document, becuase it was against mrriage, I am filing for the divorce, it hurts, and yes it is for such a stupid thing, if you see we have everything, jobs, house, good kids, health, love everything, but becuase of his money saving act from me will make lose everything. I really feel sorry for the kids, they were blended like crazy, here actually adults has been the porblems, and children will suffer in the result.
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