Hi all, I've been reading the forum for a few weeks but am new to posting.
It looks like I will become a 'stepdad' soon, as my fiance has two children. She also has an abusive, threatening & controlling ex husband who has already attempted to threaten & intimidate me over my involvement with his ex.
He jerks her around over custody with the kids already (control issues), and I only expect it will worsen & be directed at me once I am there around the children.
Becoming a step dad is pretty scary to begin with and it looks like a rough ride with the ex in the picture. Any advice, stories, etc from those of you who have been in similar situations?