My husband made chief and decided that he does not want to be married anymore. Everything was great before then at least for me. Now he is very secretive and dissappears for days at a time without telling anyone. He swears that he is not having an affair.We have two children and have been married for eighteen years. I was military for 13 years but got out when we started having children. I have a lawyer but am not sure what is going to happen to me and the children. I am a full time student. Can someone tell me what could I expect.