My marriage took a big turn for the worst. My wife and I have been having issues. End of July was our 9th anniversary she took me on a trip to Georgia. I thought everything was going well. After we had a great time on the trip she said she was going to find a place to stay she wanted time away. I told her she could stay at the house and I would find some place (thinking i was doing the right thing). She said I left like I got what I wanted. Well we find out she is very sick, we have known something was up for three months. She said she didn't want me back home she needed me. I then find out there is someone else, not intimate yet. She tells me she loves him and not me, I came back to help anyway. She said this doesn't change anything after all this is over she wants me back out of the house. Tonight she said she wasn't sure if she loved me. My wife goes no place but work and home so I'm assuming this is a work guy. Am I doing the right thing and will this show her I'm in love with her still. I start seeing a councilor in two weeks to work on my communication skills. Is she testing me? Is she truly done with me? If this guy is so great why am I here and he isn't? Why did she chose me to be here? We have vacation coming up in September and she keeps talking like we are going together. I'm confused!!!
-------------------- She is my music, without her my world falls silent.