So I have let some time go by and this is the conclusion that I have come to.
Okay, so the million dollar question. Where do I go from this point? Just a brief review: I have been married for a little over seven years. We have 3 children together. We have had our ups and downs over the years, but the downs definitely outweigh the ups. But, I have tried and tried for the kids. It is getting to the point where I am not sure how much longer I can do this.
We went to counseling, and that really just ended in us hurting each other that much more. The counseler pretty much said that there was nothing more counseling could do for us, until we were both ready to make changes because we wanted too, not because that's what the counelor had said.
So I have been doing a lot of thinking over the last week or so, actually a lot longer, but more seriously over the last week, and I have come to the conclusion That I truly believe that the marraige is over. There had been too much fighting and too much hurt, and I truly believe in my heart that it is no longer fixable.
I tried bringing it up last night in a conversation that I had with him, he acted like I didn't even say anything and went back to talking about something completely different. I don't know what else to do?
So that brings us back to the million dollar question....Where do I go from here?
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