Oh my ex started off the first years of marriage stating that he would only buy flowers if things were going good in our relationship - he apparently was waiting for perfection because he wouldn't even buy me birthday or anniversary presents.
In the last two years he bought flowers when he f#cked up - I should have known when he came down for Thanksgiving and brought me flowers that he was cheating.
-------------------- **2 1/2 weeks to go...should start counting down the days**