Thanks Kgrow...What a nightmare. Would you beleive she stashed our 20k savings, was awarded 100% (10K) of our joint tax filing last year and was just awarded a 10K equity line to help with the mortgage on our house....Im looking through furniture for change and chosing between gas or food each week.....While of course giving her $600 per month....Ahhh what a system....ITs quite a raping to take but I chose her....Thanks for the info...