My husband and recently seperated. It was a long time coming, and I'm not saying it was all his fault, I'm not perfect, but I wanted things to end amicably. I was with him since i was 16(at least on and off) We have been married since 1997. he's had multiple affairs, and more importantly he was with my mother 5 years ago. When he left, he went back to her, and now he's taking me to court for spousal support. I have been supporting him and our three sons for the majority of 5 years. I don't want to do it anymore, yes, a little bit out of spite and hurt, but also because I work very hard, and already have hardly anything to show for it. I don't think it is fair to my sons' either. I live in Pennsylvania. I've been un-happily married for 9 years