unfortunately they are right....although we want to do things by ourselves sometimes, there are times when we really need help from outside sourses, and you are in that kind of situation...and your family will not think any less of you if you do get in touch with them and let them know of the situation....trust me, they would rather know, than wonder if you are doing ok or not.... I had to learn the hard way myself Pride can be a big barrier from family, but they will always love you no matter what....