Thank you very much for replying to me. I just filed for child support today. Thankfully the county agency knows his name enough(he doesn't pay for his two daughters either). Our hearings will coincide with each other on the same day, so like you stated, I'm really hoping that his support for my sons will offset what I may have to pay. I really do appreciate your post to me, I really just needed to vent, and didn't think many people would be able to stomache my message. I just wish that it wasn't real life for me, but thanks again!