Stbx would say I was telling my sons horrible things about him and that's why they did'nt want to talk to him..
When my older son was learning to drive the poor kid had to have him for a teacher not me.....and once when we were all going somewhere together...stbx decided to let him pratice....I never heard such bad mouthing and yelling...my youngest son was 4 or 5 yrs.old at that time and he just bust-out screaming he was so afraid....he just drove a few feet....then stbx proceeded to tell me I raised a bunch of sissies that can't take it....I was just shocked...and remained quiet till we got home...then all hell broke loose...He told me I was'nt women enough for him and that I was stupid and he doubted these kids were even his...and I better not think of leaving him because he'll take these kids from me so fast my head would spin...and from now on...I better listen to him..or things could get worse....
I hope there is a special hell for these jerks.....