Okay Mike... Thank you so much for Ur advice. What does it mean to win by default anyway? I don't mean to sound stupid or anything but I'm not sure what ya mean. I wish I had the gumption to type all that is at stake here but I just don't. There is the issue also of the farmhouse and 20 acres where I, we lived. I still am living here with our 14 yr old son. He had abandoned us and the place here. We didn't hear from him for such a long time because he was off in a motel with his girlfriend. When he finally did call he threatened me cause of the lien I had put on the 40 acres he ended up selling for the million dollars. My question is... Do ya think that our son and I will get to remain in the house here also? Thanx