I have been married for more than 13 years, but he has had plenty of affairs which I did not find out til a while back. After I told him I would like to get a divorce .... he said go ahead you get nothing ........ he is retired, plus there is a steady income, he says I could always apply for welfare and food stamps ........ so I wonder if that is true that some funds are not touchable or that if you can hide the income somehow ??