Divorce Support Forums: Prose-visitation

I could use some help. I am handling my own divorce due to lack of funding. My wife's attorney is throwing everything in the book at me and I believe she will request her attorney's fees at the end of the year+ process. My wife has asked the courts to grant a temp restraining order (TRO) not allowing me to see, or talk to, my children. There has not been any violence, aside from a few shouting matches. I also do not qualify (financially) for a pro bono lawyer. Can anyone advise me on how to get up from below this rock and do what is right for the children? My wife is not acting in their best interests and I have been taking the high road to try to be as accommodating as possible throughout the proceedings.

Is there anyone who has been through this before and/or is there an Illinois (DuPage Co.) lawyer who may be willing to help?

Thanks

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