My ex is in a diversion program offered to first time offenders and he blames me... It was just a little fight with his son..(he attacked from behind and I had to throw him to the ground to stop the attack)...the city would not have prosecuted if I didn't insist... I made a police report and never talked to them again...I am a witch to have done this to him...They are so blameless, but proving it is a problem and even after they serve their punishment they still will deny