I have had some very hard times as of late, Lawyers child support, rent,renters insurance, Debt from my stbx "dead" business, and the list goes on. My options are to declare bankruptcy and wait for her to "cash me out" however all the bills are still jointly on our credit. Im crushed and trying to make a life for my kids, but at every turn, she wants more from me. i didnt ask for this.....And it will hurt all of us. Thanks for your time. Tom