Thanks I agree. I am willing to give up anything for my girls. I have friends who have given up alot and the money or support never seems to end up benefiting the children. It's unfortunate that there is not more accountablity of how the support is spent,ie college fund. I know any extra I give up will go to my wife's spending sprees and not to the kids. I would rather split everything and buy things for the girls and save for their college and wedding funds. Overall I feel we will be able to divide everything in the best interest of the kids because that's all I care about at this time!