I am coming here because I feel it is really time for a life change for me. I have been with my husband for 10 years and we have been married for a long time. We have two children together.
It comes down to the point where their is no longer (and maybe never was) any trust for me in this marriage. He is very controlling and has to know where I am 24/7. If I try and get away from the house (even to the grocery store sometimes) I am getting constant calls on my cell phone. I mean like 4-5 times in a hour. It makes me very upset because I have done everything in his power to earn his trust and I am sick of trying.
I look back now and they say hindsight is 20/20 and realize that we are way to different. He is a yeller, I'm more quite, etc. And I have found myself changing in ways I don't like to compensate for his personality traits.
Since I really the first one of my friends to go through this (at least that aren't older) I feel like I kneed to talk to someone who can sympathize.
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