I don't believe counselling is your issue. I think medical attention is what is needed here. He needs some meds. Don't push the head shrink push the medical doctor.
Trust me I think he has a problem in his head and I think a doctor can fix it. I think he can be what you had again. I hope you try it and I hope you can fix it, but it also sounds like I am too late.
I really wish you the best of luck.
I think the whole marriage and love thing is a farce anyway.
Times changed and marriage is dead.
-------------------- The problem isn't the game; it is that nobody knows the rules.