Divorce Support Forums: Life Change?

Ok I am starting to get the picture here. You have a common problem. I know it is tiring. My opinion is to fight for the marraige -for better or worse right?

You may or may not agree with me but I am telling you how I feel.

OK assuming you go on with the divorce do you really think things will get easier? Do you think things will get better?

I know you don't see an end to the tunnel but I really think you should give it your all. That is the best you can do.

I understand that he doesn't do enough around the house. I am guilty of that myself. I am getting better but it didn't take over night.

I am responsible for all the computer stuff and car stuff and I am expected to do all of that. I do expect my C/F to do some thing too. I do help her but she does more admittedly, but not once has she come out and help me with the car.

Why do I do that. I am sorry I turned this into me.

Ok back on track.

If you divorce you will be doing all the same stuff but for one less person. I can help you with some ideas, but if you are not willing to fight I am not willing to waste my time. I will talk to you and answer questions and i understand if you just can't work it out, but if you already have your mind made up there really isn't much I can do for you.

What if you go to counselling yourself? I know that you probably do not need it but maybe they can give you ideas on how to better deal with your Hubby.

What do you think?

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