I've been married 29 years. In June, my husband said that he wants a divorce so that he can start dating. He makes about $109,000 a year. I work as a school secretary ten months a year and make $24,700 a year. When he sprang this on me I gor a second job as a real estate secretary. I'm now working 7 days a week and three evenings also. My 2 kids are grown and not at the house anymore. He wants to go to a mediator and pay me $1,000 a month for three years. I am so devasted about having to leave my home and everything. I have never been on my own or had to support myself. I am 54. Any advice? Thanks