My mother is getting a divorce. She has been married for 9 years. As far as I know everything is in his name. She is making copies of all bank statements etc. He says he's going to spend money like he wants to and she just has to "deal" b/c it's all his anyway. What can she do? She is meeting with an attorney today. They have some cash can she take half and put it in the safe deposit box or something? She needs advice ASAP. She doesn't feel her computer is "safe" so I'm posting for her. Please help. What can she do to prepare?