I'm trying to get my daughters to come over for the weekend..my estranged wife phones me and starts to say stop yelling and that when the children are here! I don't let them speak to her while the kids and her parents are next to her while she on the phone with me...also they put me on speaker phone when I talk to the kids. I'm so worried for my kids...she got a DUI 4months ago and has had 2 domestics with her boyfriend who threatened to kill me the kids and my father...she stays away for up to a week at a time from the children...they want to live with me too...They just asked if they could come over I feel awfull.I tell my ex-father in-law I can't talk with her because she is twisting the truth and he says he wont get in the middle!!even though he is paying for her lawyer and raising the children with his wife while she is gone all the time..I'm sick of being told I'm harrassing her when I've not called not called her for over a week....I helped her when her boyfriend was beating her up a couple of weeks ago by getting the police to help her and then found out she got back together with him..I told her we are done and there is no friendship.