Your idea of talking to him is good but we had agreed before the divorce hearing on who was to get what so whats to say that he won't change his mind again. It would seem like this could go on forever. Do you know how likely the appeal would be heard because his 30 days were already up to file an appeal. We did not have lawyers on the initial divorce but I will have one if it gets in court again. Highly unlikely he will have one. Doesn't seem right that because he is mad he should be able to go back and try to get more. He took everything he wanted when he moved out and it is recorded that we were in agreement.