Thanks for the welcome! I've been reading a lot of others' posts and, even though this is a sad and rough time for everyone, it really does make me feel better that I'm not the only one having these issues or emotions. What is that, misery loves company? LOL Maybe we just like to feel like we're not on some phychological deserted island.
I hope all goes well for you - though I do have to say you can look at the bright side and know that you're lucky you two don't have kids in the mix. It would have been so much better had we figured that out before we had kids. Hindsight's always 20/20... Moving forward....
Thanks again for the welcome! And you take care, too, as best the situation can warrant.