I have been trying to get a divorce for over 2 1/2 years. I was to have been divorced on 2/16/04. My husband delayed the divorce (who knows why) Anyway, I decided to get along with my life since we had already been separated for over 6 months. I started dating a wonderful man in late March of 2004. Well, the estranged husband was able to modify his action and use Adultery as a cause for divorce. Now, keep in mind that our divorce should have been over 2/16/04. If he had not delayed the process, Adultery would not have been an issue. I have been trying to get a divorce for almost as long as I was married to this man. So, in Tennessee, you better be careful. It can cause you problems if you start seeing someone. I do not have any children because I am over 50 and just trying to get this thing over.