I was in Irag while I was going through the divorce. I guess I screwed myself on the settlement due to my schedule returning back to Iraq. I want to appeal "to modify" alimony support to my ex-spouse. We don't have children and been married for 12 years. At the settlement, I was jetlagged from Iraq trip and now I resent the outcome. I'm paying her $1,150 monthly and paying for the house that she is living in, NM ($1,350). I'm in the Army and now soon to retire. I need some advice and support. Pls someone give me some enlightment.