Divorce Support Forums: Mind games

I filed for a divorce on Feb. 8 with my wife. We have 3 boys ages 12,15,17. The 17 year old has moved into an apartment with me. The other two have stayed with my STBX. Recently my boys have told me some of the things my STBX has been telling them. Some things are very disturbing and I am not sure what to do other than confront her. My biggest concern is with the 15 year old who is clinically depressed. She told him that he is the cause of the divorce. He has taken this very had and started to cut himself again. He had stopped cutting himself about 6 months ago. He has had suicidal thoughts in the past and I am afraid they may resurface. She told the 17 year old that he is cold hearted and that he doesn't love her because he moved in with me. She has also been telling my youngest some things that caused him to change his mind about living with me. Originally he was going to move in with me but now he says that he needs to stay with his Mother to take care of her because she doesn't have anyone to take care of her anymore. Do I need to get a court appointed psychologist to evaluate the family? Any help or advice is appreciated.

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