Well, there you are, Kole. Now you've met Gigi! I won't say anything else, as I don't want to tangle with her again.
Based on your answers, I can't think of anything else to suggest. It's true I don't have much experience with custody or support and never claimed to. Since your wife has an attorney now, any suggestions about this or anything else could be counterproductive as your attorney must now conduct all negotiations with her through her attorney and therefore may not want to hear too many ideas from you about it, even if they originally came from a source as unimpeachable as Gigi!
Good luck, and do drop back in from time to time and keep us updated!