My kids want him out because of the 16 and 18 years of life they have had with him. They got tired of hearing their mother called worthless and lousy. They are tired of the rages, etc. I told them they did not have to do anything they didn't want to do. They begged me to let them talk to the attorneys in the hopes that they could make a difference. I have done everything I can to protect them from this process and follow what is recommended in the divorce class required by Indiana. If I have to be the one to move out for the good of the family, I will; however, it would be much easier for him to than for myself and 3 kids. I posted on this site asking for help during a time of shock and grief. I certainly did not expect this response.