Ok i have gotten the letter returned to me as home is vacant now. Have had someone try to attempt service at old address where we lived 2-gether, also her last known add. as well as the last four jobs she has had. Now i beleive i have to put in a motion for alternate service. Any suggestions or am i doing this wrong? If anyone has gone through a divorce as i am please any input would be helpful.I have spoken to an attorney but i can't afford to have him help me with htis entire thing.