Divorce Support Forums: want a divorce , help

Me and my wife have been separated for 2 years. we have been married for 17 years. she suffers from depression and bi-polar and we have had some trouble. She was baker acted appx. 5 years ago. She went to jail twice for domestic violence. She has worked on/off during the marriage. She doesnt work now because her doctor says she is unable due to her condition although I don't know all the details because her doctor wont speak to me. We have 2 kids ages 13 and 16 and they live with me although they can stay with her at times. She is now expecting a baby which is not mine. I understand that i will have to pay her alimony but I don't want to have to pay child support for someone elses child. I am sure I can have custody of my sons (or at least 50/50 and no child support). I currently support her (rent, electricity..). I was told I cannot get a divorce until after the baby is born.

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