My question is, how do I prove that he is a danger, what kind of evidence do I need? The other day when he had his grandmother pick my son up instead of him because he was out smoking dope, is that evidence? He is on probation for a drug charge and had been to 9 rehabs, also I have witness accounts of him using, and incidents where his using caused him be missing for hours at a time. I do not have any police reports about his using because whenever he got his first hit, he would turn off his cell phone and could not be found for hours at a time. Also, what does abandon mean? He has maintained phone contact sparatically and I took my son to see STBX while he was in Rehab. But he does give montary support since he left or has paid any bills, ect. I could afford to start my divorce if he would pay some sort of child support, but my attorney that I will be using said not to try to get any support until I file for divorce, I am in a big circle and can't get out.