man I live in a very,very,very small town. One that wouldn't understand my situation as a stay at home dad because it's unheard of around our farming community. I'm in Logan County (Bellefontaine is where the courts are). I'd like to get a lawyer to understand my position in all this and to make things worse my wife has gotten someone who went to my school, graduated with my sister, and was at one time, the prosecuting attorney. I'm worried that that right there will be an advantage to her because this guy is familiar with the judges and eeveryone else.