My wife and I have been to counseling, both together and as individuals. It's had some success. Unfortunately, our most recent couples therapist said that we needed to stop seeing her until my wife took care of her depression in a more "aggressive" manner (not her word). My wife is still quite depressed.
Another note...my wife had been Roman Catholic (somewhat practicing) until both her parents dies within a 6 month period. She has stopped practicing, and is angry, and is depressed. That started over 17 years ago. I always offer to go to church with her, but she does not want to go.
I am a proselytizing, though spiritual, atheist. Always have been.
Do you love being married, or do you love being married to your husband (or, at least, to who your husband WAS, before the affair)?
-------------------- --Boothby
My goal: Once a day, make someone laugh so hard that their soda comes out their nose
Previous
Index
Next
Flat
Re: husband left us to live with his girlfrind
Edit
Reply
Quote
