Last Friday my wife told me to leave. She told me this at 10:00 am and that I had till 12:30 to get out. I left because the house is in her name and I was afraid that I would go to jail.
Let me inlighten you to the issue. I am a alcoholic and she does not like that at all. That is one of the issues at stake. We split once before do the the alcohol but she took me back saying that she loved me and had promised her I would quit. The non drinking lasted about a month and I started drinking again. Four years later, she kicked out again for abusing alcohol. By the way, I am not a violent drunk, and I lost my job in December do to testing pos to alcohol. I go for a drug test for a job today. I know I have a problem and I am getting help.
She also states that I am controlling. That I tell her what to eat, when to eat ect. Which I defend by saying that I make sure she has food ready when gets home from work, when she gets ready for work and food to take to work. She thinks that is possessive, I say it is caring.
I spoke with her today and she said that she doesn't feel anything for me. That I promised four years ago that I would quit and I have not quit. That if she took me back that I would just start drinking again down the road...whether is be one week, one month, one year or ten years...that I will drink again.
I am willing to go to marriage counseling but she won't consider it. She said she isn't going to get a divorce right now. So that gives me some hope. I love my wife with all my heart and will do anything to win her back. She says that she loves me as the father of our child, but does not love me as a husband. We would be celebrating our 15th anniversary in June it we decide.
Also, my wife and I did almost everything together. We had no real outside friends, but we did alot of things.
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