One thing with abusers is they always pick a real confident take charge person...then the game begins...with them getting the victim dismanteled and confused...then degrading and losing self confidence enters the picture..and all of a sudden you cannot do anything right...and go to extremes to please them...and then just told..that it is not enough...lost is just the beginning...
They are such shallow minded people...what they take from you is what they themselves lack...they just don't want any competition...they want you at their level or lower...
They have multiple problems...that have nothing to do with you...it is just easier to push someone that has no idea..what is going on...it is a losing game for you to play with him...I doubt that he will change...and if he did..just how long would it last...before he starts in with a vengence that could lead to serious bodily harm...he isn't worth dying for...
you must consider your child...and yourself..first... Please get some counslering and then consider further exstending your safety...he must be shown...that you will not allow this to continue...and please at this point ever consider trusting him...that he will get better....it should be...get better first...then you will talk about it..
I stayed with a very abusive man that started out slowly to not only verbally but emotionally and physically abusing me...and I felt like a prisoner with him....trust your inner voice and listen...you can decide to not take this anymore...the only one that can change is you...and you deserve to be treated decently..no one ever should harm you..especially pregnant...that is just amoral... keep us posted...we care...