please don't blame ur wife 4 what happened. the pastor is to blame. he usurped his authority.i have been married to a pastor for 27yrs. he has been committing adultery with the co-pastors for 16yrs.I tape recorded all their phone sex and sordid sexual details of their affair and all the masturbating. It is sick. now all the perverse details of the taped conversations torment my mind 24/7. I am getting ready to go public with my story and expose my well known preacher husband then I need to find myself a bulldog lawyer. I need to speak with you urgently. please contact me. please give me ur contact e-mail or phone number. don't blame your wife. this conartiste man of god abused her and he needs to be exposed so that there will not be another victim. and oh yes there are many more women out there who have been abused and raped by their so called pastors during counselling sessions. this has to be stopped and the only way it can be done is if we are bold enough to take a stand and bring these perpertrators to justice.