My lawyer served my soon to be ex by certified mail. He isn't signing for them. It has been a week. In the meantime he filed on me and had me served by process server! Does that mean my case is dead? I filed two days before him but I'm served and he's not. And he has cancelled the medical insurance on myself and the kids. He says he will pay for it if I agree to a dissolution and not a divorce. But that was before he filed. In the meantime he is living with another woman rent free utility free and driving around in a new truck!! He has been srewing her for over a year. But that doesn't count in the court. What a crock! He finds a meal ticket, walks away and there are no penalties to him or her!!