As a single parent you must understand that due to time and circumstance you have no control over what kind of relationship your child will have with the other parent. You can attempt to influence your child to have a poor relationship, or no relationship at all, with the other parent, but nine times out of ten the child will eventually realize that he or she has been manipulated or persuaded. There are some obvious circumstances that would involve relationship intervention and those would be, domestic abuse, drug and alcohol problems, and mental instability just to name a few. If there is no physical or mental risk, positive reinforcement of any parenting relationship should exist from both parents.
Common issues that cause one parent to not want a child to have a relationship with the other parent.
- Child Support Issues
- Visitation Issues
- Step-family Issues
- Religious Issues
- Educational Issues
- Drug/Alcohol Abuse
- New Relationships
Common emotions that cause one parent to not want a child to have a relationship with the other parent.
- Jealousy - Wants to be the favorite parent.
- Revenge - Using the child to get back at the other parent.
- Insecurity - Afraid to be without the child.